Simultaneous tracings below. What does not make sense to me is there is a big difference between Google and Quad9? How could that be a wireless or router issue? While there are pings every 5 minutes or so that are long back to the router the pings are otherwise pretty solid.

I am really at a los to get my arms around what is going on.

Thanks for looking.

Router:
https://share.pingplotter.com/h1SJVnTDCCR

Google:
https://share.pingplotter.com/X4zBsrexbHj

Quad9:
https://share.pingplotter.com/JbSNUBqDtts